Archive for the ‘Before You Pick up Women’ Category

January 2nd, 2018

When To Call A Girl After A Second Date & How Timing Is Important

There is a lot of information out there about how to go by contacting a girl after a second date and often the advice is just bogus. The truth is there is no real set rules, it simply depends on the girl, how you connect, the chemistry you had on the first and second date and the overall vibe you get off her (and she gets off you).

Of course there are general rules you want to follow, such as not seeming too needy, as women really hate that. However, also playing hard to get may portray this hard bad boy image that some girls like, but honestly, if you take it too far, she might simply think you are not interest and move on… girl lost!

So if we think about it, there really is an intermediate point, a balance to consider for deciding when to call after a second date and doing it right is not so difficult really.

when to call after a second date When To Call A Girl After A Second Date & How Timing Is Important

My advice is to consider the following points. We may be men after all, but we too have brains and are able to recognise certain signs and signals, we just need to learn to be attuned to them and trust our original instincts about how she may see us.

  • – Did she engage in topics you brought up that interest you?
  • – Was she engaging your eyes when communicating?
  • – Did she smile, did the smile look genuine?
  • – Was her body / torso facing forward? Sitting to the side is a sign she may not be comfortable.

The list can go on, but honestly, unless we are blind or self-centred, we know when a date went well or not… and if you are not too sure, send her a short concise text letting her know you had a good time. If she replies, then you got a good change of seeing her again.

March 25th, 2014

How To Compliment A Woman

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Whenever I compliment a beautiful girl, it doesn’t seem to have a very good effect on her.

It’s as if she already knows what I’m going to say before I say it. She already knows she’s pretty and she’s used to having everyone remind of her of it. It feels as if she takes the compliment and adds it to a long list of previous heard compliments. I suppose that’s why she’s a little full of herself which puts her on a pedestal far beyond my reach.

My question is, if I’m going to be creating rapport and seducing attractive women, should I be complimenting her or not?

How can I make her feel flattered and at the same time have a real impact on her? I don’t want her to feel as if I’m just another guy complimenting her.

March 25th, 2014

How To Look Good

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I’m sure you’ve heard guys say that looks don’t matter, but they really do to some extent. It’s not that it’s your appearance will be the deciding factor on getting girls, but being handsome sure does help. Here are my best tips for looking great before meeting girls.

March 25th, 2014

Complimenting Women

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In today’s world, should you really be complimenting women? The difference between women and men is that women are used to compliments and men are not. You shouldn’t be throwing out compliments, especially when it’s a compliment that you don’t really mean. For instance, if you go up to a woman and say “Hey, I think you’re very attractive and have gorgeous eyes”, she’ll know that you aren’t being sincere. Instead, if you’re going to compliment women, you should use a spontaneous, sincere and original compliment. For example, noticing how her jewelry is captivating.

March 25th, 2014

How To Be More Confident With Women

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I’d argue that if you don’t know how to be more confident with woman than the average guy, then it’s likely you won’t get further than the average guy when you’re trying to approach her. Women immediately feel it when you have confidence, even if they don’t show it. Everyone will feel it, even the guys that are nearby. Confidence is something that glows around you when you have it, and something that’s very obvious when you don’t. So if you’re searching for quick ways to build confidence with women, then here are some rock solid tips.

March 25th, 2014

How to Dress To Attract Women

dressing properly How to Dress To Attract Women
I believe there’s a rather large misconception about how to dress to attract women. On the one hand, you have a group of people that what you wear really doesn’t matter and it’s not about your appearance. Contrastingly, there’s another crowd that says you need to dress up in a very clean and classy fashion to attract women. So who’s right? Are you supposed to dress up or simply not care?