3 Successful Tactics Guys Do On Tinder

Be Flirtatious But Clean

It is no secret that women do use Tinder for getting a hookup or two, but that does not mean they want to be solicited for sex in an opening message conversation.

By all means, be playful, tease a little, but resist the direct dirty talk… at least for the time being.

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with dropping a few dirty jokes, as long as she finds it funny, then you are good to go.

Feeling happy is an emotion that all people love experiencing and if you are the person that is producing this warm and fuzzy feeling, then she is more than likely going to continue the conversation which in turn increases the chances of going on a date. That is why being funny can help immensely which is also why I have included this great Tinder pickup lines list to give an idea of what you can practice saying in advance and make it sound like your flirting skills are coming right off the cuff.

Tinder pickup lines

Stupid & dirty jokes can work… sometimes!

Demonstrate Standards, Not Just List Your Best Traits

Look, the biggest mistake you are most likely making is make a list of your best traits in your About Me section. Essentially all you are doing is trying to sell yourself, very much like the most common mistakes people make during interviews.

Instead demonstrate that you have standards and that you do not feel it is a question of trying to impress all the girls there. Yes you want to impress, but you are not prepared to go any further if those standards are not reached.

Here is an example of this actually works. Imagine a girl writing this on her About Me section:

“If you cannot make me laugh, then you can make me brownies instead”

It is subtle but makes you want to take on the challenge and see if you can meet her standards…. make sure you can apply the same principles.

Good Photos WILL Help Get To The Next Stage

Try and avoid using selfies. Everyone and their aunts have used selfies on their profile image or any other images you want to display to that girl you are trying to find. Essentially, I would advice investing in a professional taking some nice clean, good quality shots.

Of course I understand that many may consider professional photography is a little overboard, so if you still want to snap that selfie, then make sure the background depicts something interesting that translates something about you, for example, a place you have travelled to. Avoid bedroom wall backdrops… what does that really say about you?

Please, avoid group photos as she does not want to spend her time trying to figure out which one is you. Besides what if she finds your friends more attractive than you? Game over!

 

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