Stupid & dirty jokes can work… sometimes!

It is no secret that women do use Tinder for getting a hookup or two, but that does not mean they want to be solicited for sex in an opening message conversation.

By all means, be playful, tease a little, but resist the direct dirty talk… at least for the time being.

Spotting a genuine smile

When we fail, we end up going online and looking at dozens of websites that fall on the first page of Google for advice. We naturally assume this advice must be good, however, do we really know how good this information really is?

I’m sure you’ve been there before, you’re waiting in line in a store, waiting to acquire a new item and you catch a glimpse of a gorgeous girl in line. Knowing how to pick up a girl while you’re waiting in a store really isn’t any different from any other type of pickup, and I’ll show you how to do it without even lifting a finger. First, let’s get the conclusion out of the way, the real key to picking up a girl is to figure out what you like in her that’s not related to her physical appearance. Phrased differently because it’s important and I really want to drive the point home: When you approach a girl to pick her up, you need to figure out what you like in her (if anything) other than her good looks. If you adopt that philosophy, you’ll have the right frame of mind and you’re entire interaction will go smoothly.

I know it can really be a daunting task to start a conversation with a girl, especially when you don’t know her. However, there are some guidelines that if you follow, you’ll know exactly how to start a conversation with a girl even if you’ve never done it before. Once you have the conversation going, you’ll have to keep it up as she’s likely not going to have much to say until she warms up to you. If anything, you should expect to do most of the talking within the first few minutes of the conversation until it progresses to a point where you’re both talking equally.

So let’s start!

In our fast paced world, having a few good openers is essential if you plan on being successful in seduction. That’s because a lot of the time when you’re going about your day, you’ll see a beautiful woman and your mind will go absolutely blank. Having a few good openers prepared in advance will allow you to go in and open the conversation without even thinking. This is especially important for guys that have approach anxiety because the longer you think about it, the least likely you are to approach a girl.

Assuming you’d like to know how to pick up girls in any situation, the fastest way to learn is to watch other guys do it first. Learning from other men is probably the best way to go about it if you’ve never done it before. The odd thing is that if you ask a guy who’s naturally good at picking up girls to describe what he does, he probably won’t have a clue. That brings me to my biggest tip when picking up women: Don’t think about it and certainly don’t think about the possible outcome.

The most important lesson you can learn when learning how to approach girls is to realize that one day, you’re going to grow old. While you’re reflecting on your life, you’ll remember all those missed opportunities that you should have taken. Every single time you failed to approach a girl, all those missed approaches will haunt you. So make the most of your time on earth while you’re still young and enjoy it.

Take a moment to think about it. When you’re approaching women, what’s the worst thing that a girl can possibly say to you if you ask her on a date? The worse she can say is “no” right? Well you’re wrong! The worse she can say is that she wouldn’t go out with you if were the last man on Earth, that you’re ugly and disgusting and you should never talk to her again.

While I was at a party the other day, I stood there drinking my beer and casually observed a really gorgeous woman from a distance.  I wanted to see what guys did to try to pick her up. Like most hot girls at the party, she was surrounded by guys that were all trying to pick her up. Then out of the blue, one guy and said something to her that made her laugh so hard. And he only said one sentence!

What was it? Was it a pickup line?

I love to chat on forums and dating sites because when I’m there I have absolutely no problems approaching girls.  It’s actually really enjoyable for me to see how they react and behave to my different approaches. Online, I don’t have any shyness or fear and these days  Facebook and Myspace actually seem like a game for me. I like to see how long I can keep their attention. I think what helps me the most is the fact that I feel completely anonymous, so when something goes wrong, nobody can do or say anything bad about me. I can simply go on and approach another girl and not feel bad about the last one that didn’t work out.