Archive for the ‘Approaching Women’ Category

December 22nd, 2017

3 Successful Tactics Guys Do On Tinder

Be Flirtatious But Clean

It is no secret that women do use Tinder for getting a hookup or two, but that does not mean they want to be solicited for sex in an opening message conversation.

By all means, be playful, tease a little, but resist the direct dirty talk… at least for the time being.

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with dropping a few dirty jokes, as long as she finds it funny, then you are good to go.

Feeling happy is an emotion that all people love experiencing and if you are the person that is producing this warm and fuzzy feeling, then she is more than likely going to continue the conversation which in turn increases the chances of going on a date. That is why being funny can help immensely which is also why I have included this great Tinder pickup lines list to give an idea of what you can practice saying in advance and make it sound like your flirting skills are coming right off the cuff.

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Stupid & dirty jokes can work… sometimes!

Demonstrate Standards, Not Just List Your Best Traits

Look, the biggest mistake you are most likely making is make a list of your best traits in your About Me section. Essentially all you are doing is trying to sell yourself, very much like the most common mistakes people make during interviews.

Instead demonstrate that you have standards and that you do not feel it is a question of trying to impress all the girls there. Yes you want to impress, but you are not prepared to go any further if those standards are not reached.

Here is an example of this actually works. Imagine a girl writing this on her About Me section:

“If you cannot make me laugh, then you can make me brownies instead”

It is subtle but makes you want to take on the challenge and see if you can meet her standards…. make sure you can apply the same principles.

Good Photos WILL Help Get To The Next Stage

Try and avoid using selfies. Everyone and their aunts have used selfies on their profile image or any other images you want to display to that girl you are trying to find. Essentially, I would advice investing in a professional taking some nice clean, good quality shots.

Of course I understand that many may consider professional photography is a little overboard, so if you still want to snap that selfie, then make sure the background depicts something interesting that translates something about you, for example, a place you have travelled to. Avoid bedroom wall backdrops… what does that really say about you?

Please, avoid group photos as she does not want to spend her time trying to figure out which one is you. Besides what if she finds your friends more attractive than you? Game over!


August 31st, 2017

Backing The Art Of Seduction With Science

For most of us, we try and better our dating game.

When we fail, we end up going online and looking at dozens of websites that fall on the first page of Google for advice. We naturally assume this advice must be good, however, do we really know how good this information really is?


For the first time ever, I came across a website called WayTooSocial that offers information on science backed dating advice, discussing things from the importance of making girls smile all the way to developing a long term relationship.

So let us take a look at some of this science backed advice:

How To Tell If A Smile Is Genuine

Smiling is contagious, and by smiling at her she will automatically smile back. The idea here is to make her feel good as studies show that by simply smiling you start to feel good… however, the trick here is to spot a genuine smile and make sure she is not smiling back just because she feels sorry for you.

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Spotting a genuine smile

Importance Of Sensitivity & Honesty

Starting off any relationship with dishonesty and cockiness is a recipe for failure. It may work to start off with, however, it is only a matter of time when they realize you have been living a lie.
A partner desire study by Taylor & Francis show that “honesty & trustworthiness” & “sensitivity” are the most desired characteristic in married women.

Breaking Up & How To Move On

When we break up with someone we feel guilty for trying to move on too soon, we naturally try and think of that person because we care about them so much.
This very much becomes a battle between you as a person and your inner feelings and it is only a matter of time before you realize you as an individual are more important than the feelings you poses.

A survey done by the Breakup App shows that the average painfulness of a breakup is very high regardless of what age you are. This shows that the majority of people of different age groups feel high levels of pain during breakups… showing that we all need to learn how to move on for a better future, regardless of how painful it is

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Pain factor after breakups for different age groups

March 25th, 2014

How To Pick Up A Girl When You’re Waiting in Line In The Store

pickup How To Pick Up A Girl When Youre Waiting in Line In The StoreI’m sure you’ve been there before, you’re waiting in line in a store, waiting to acquire a new item and you catch a glimpse of a gorgeous girl in line. Knowing how to pick up a girl while you’re waiting in a store really isn’t any different from any other type of pickup, and I’ll show you how to do it without even lifting a finger. First, let’s get the conclusion out of the way, the real key to picking up a girl is to figure out what you like in her that’s not related to her physical appearance. Phrased differently because it’s important and I really want to drive the point home: When you approach a girl to pick her up, you need to figure out what you like in her (if anything) other than her good looks. If you adopt that philosophy, you’ll have the right frame of mind and you’re entire interaction will go smoothly.

March 25th, 2014

How To Start A Conversation With a Girl

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I know it can really be a daunting task to start a conversation with a girl, especially when you don’t know her. However, there are some guidelines that if you follow, you’ll know exactly how to start a conversation with a girl even if you’ve never done it before. Once you have the conversation going, you’ll have to keep it up as she’s likely not going to have much to say until she warms up to you. If anything, you should expect to do most of the talking within the first few minutes of the conversation until it progresses to a point where you’re both talking equally.

So let’s start!

March 25th, 2014

Good Openers

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In our fast paced world, having a few good openers is essential if you plan on being successful in seduction. That’s because a lot of the time when you’re going about your day, you’ll see a beautiful woman and your mind will go absolutely blank. Having a few good openers prepared in advance will allow you to go in and open the conversation without even thinking. This is especially important for guys that have approach anxiety because the longer you think about it, the least likely you are to approach a girl.

March 25th, 2014

Learn How To Pick Up Girls

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Assuming you’d like to know how to pick up girls in any situation, the fastest way to learn is to watch other guys do it first. Learning from other men is probably the best way to go about it if you’ve never done it before. The odd thing is that if you ask a guy who’s naturally good at picking up girls to describe what he does, he probably won’t have a clue. That brings me to my biggest tip when picking up women: Don’t think about it and certainly don’t think about the possible outcome.

March 25th, 2014

How to Approach Girls

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The most important lesson you can learn when learning how to approach girls is to realize that one day, you’re going to grow old. While you’re reflecting on your life, you’ll remember all those missed opportunities that you should have taken. Every single time you failed to approach a girl, all those missed approaches will haunt you. So make the most of your time on earth while you’re still young and enjoy it.

Take a moment to think about it. When you’re approaching women, what’s the worst thing that a girl can possibly say to you if you ask her on a date? The worse she can say is “no” right? Well you’re wrong! The worse she can say is that she wouldn’t go out with you if were the last man on Earth, that you’re ugly and disgusting and you should never talk to her again.

March 25th, 2014

How To Make a Girl Smile

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While I was at a party the other day, I stood there drinking my beer and casually observed a really gorgeous woman from a distance.  I wanted to see what guys did to try to pick her up. Like most hot girls at the party, she was surrounded by guys that were all trying to pick her up. Then out of the blue, one guy and said something to her that made her laugh so hard. And he only said one sentence!

What was it? Was it a pickup line?

March 25th, 2014

How To Approach Girls In The Real World

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I love to chat on forums and dating sites because when I’m there I have absolutely no problems approaching girls.  It’s actually really enjoyable for me to see how they react and behave to my different approaches. Online, I don’t have any shyness or fear and these days  Facebook and Myspace actually seem like a game for me. I like to see how long I can keep their attention. I think what helps me the most is the fact that I feel completely anonymous, so when something goes wrong, nobody can do or say anything bad about me. I can simply go on and approach another girl and not feel bad about the last one that didn’t work out.