Backing The Art Of Seduction With Science

For most of us, we try and better our dating game.

When we fail, we end up going online and looking at dozens of websites that fall on the first page of Google for advice. We naturally assume this advice must be good, however, do we really know how good this information really is?


For the first time ever, I came across a website called WayTooSocial that offers information on science backed dating advice, discussing things from the importance of making girls smile all the way to developing a long term relationship.

So let us take a look at some of this science backed advice:

How To Tell If A Smile Is Genuine

Smiling is contagious, and by smiling at her she will automatically smile back. The idea here is to make her feel good as studies show that by simply smiling you start to feel good… however, the trick here is to spot a genuine smile and make sure she is not smiling back just because she feels sorry for you.

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Spotting a genuine smile

Importance Of Sensitivity & Honesty

Starting off any relationship with dishonesty and cockiness is a recipe for failure. It may work to start off with, however, it is only a matter of time when they realize you have been living a lie.
A partner desire study by Taylor & Francis show that “honesty & trustworthiness” & “sensitivity” are the most desired characteristic in married women.

Breaking Up & How To Move On

When we break up with someone we feel guilty for trying to move on too soon, we naturally try and think of that person because we care about them so much.
This very much becomes a battle between you as a person and your inner feelings and it is only a matter of time before you realize you as an individual are more important than the feelings you poses.

A survey done by the Breakup App shows that the average painfulness of a breakup is very high regardless of what age you are. This shows that the majority of people of different age groups feel high levels of pain during breakups… showing that we all need to learn how to move on for a better future, regardless of how painful it is

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Pain factor after breakups for different age groups

What Would I Tell Myself If I Could Go 10 Years Into The Past

waytoosocial orange 600px 300x100 What Would I Tell Myself If I Could Go 10 Years Into The PastI’m really excited to announce the re-opening of one of our sister sites, WayTooSocial. It’s our chance to jump into the more modern dating world, to get an active engagement from the community and to widen our reach in order to help more people. The first piece of content to be published on the newly redesigned site touches the theme of dating advice and explores what I would tell my 20 year old self if I could go back in time.

The question asks itself… how would that affect my life? Would I ignore the advice or follow it religiously? At the end of the day, the only useful advice is the one that you apply in your life. If you’re interested (and you should be, it’s damned good!) then read it here: and make sure to let us know what you think in the comments!

Mega List Of The Top 100 Things That Attract Women

Physical height? Strength? Power? Money? What really attracts women to men? Well there’s a hell of a list over on WayTooSocial about the Top Things That Attract Women.

And of course, there are a hundred points so there are contradictions but every point has it’s value.

You know that attraction is really something that we don’t control. Imagine this, a beautiful girl walks into the room… and you aren’t allowed to be attract to her. Does that work? Can you force yourself not to feel any attraction?

You might be able to resist talking to her… hey, you can even forcefully ignore her. One thing is sure though, we are wired to feel biological responses whenever we see attractive members of the opposite sex. Don’t fight it, it’s biology!

Here’s how you can use biology to your advantage, by reading that list!

Curious? Check it out after the jump.

How To Get A Girlfriend

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As a dating coach, pretty much everywhere I go there are guys that are wondering how to get a girlfriend to embellish their lives. They want love, attraction, lust,  someone to watch movies with and of course,  someone to make love to. Unfortunately, the guys that say they need a girlfriend … well, most of the time, they are also the least likely guys to get one.

What Attracts Women

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You can imagine a typical scenario where guys, huddled around a table, are discussing what attracts women. They’ll usually point out that power, money and looks are the key factors in attracting females. Although those factors might help, they certainly aren’t the only things and definitely not the most powerful ones. We’ll explore how women work and what really triggers attraction.

Cocky And Funny

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Cocky and funny is a concept that was originally introduced by David DeAngelo in one of his books, Double Your Dating. David noticed through trial and error that one of the most effective ways of sparking attraction early on in an interaction is to say something that is funny with a hint of cockyness. Although this is only one of the many techniques that he teaches, this is probably the most popular one simply because it’s easy and effective to do.

Demonstration Of Higher Value – DHV

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The definition of a demonstration of higher value, more commonly known through the acronym DHV is simply a statement that increases your social status relative to the people around you. Originally introduced by Mystery, Erik Von Markovich, who showed that demonstrating higher value increases your attractiveness. The more you are worth, the more desirable you are. Hhow can you go about demonstrating higher value? Well there are a few ways.

Demonstration of Lower Value – DLV

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The definition of demonstration of lower value, or DLV for short is to do or say something that makes you less valuable in the eyes of the girl that you’re currently pursuing. This can be something that you say, but it is usually the result of a certain behavior. In most cases, the result of DLV is usually less attraction and it can be the cause of break-ups in certain cases. However there is an exception where DLV is actually beneficial and will increase attraction, we’ll cover this exception in this article.

How To Get A Girl To Like You

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For men, learning how to get a girl to like you can be one of the most rewarding experiences. Once you know what creates attraction in men and women, you can finally go out and search for your ideal woman. If you think you’ve already found a girl that you would like to know better, then read on because creating attraction isn’t all that hard once you understand the basics.

How To Flirt With Women

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If you’re a guy and you don’t know how to flirt properly and effectively with women, then you’re seriously missing out on some of the joys that life has to offer. Flirting, the act of teasing and hinting interest in a person and having them reciprocate. It’s fun, easy and provides pretty good results if your objective is to attract women to you. So let’s get started.