How To Be More Confident With Women

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I’d argue that if you don’t know how to be more confident with woman than the average guy, then it’s likely you won’t get further than the average guy when you’re trying to approach her. Women immediately feel it when you have confidence, even if they don’t show it. Everyone will feel it, even the guys that are nearby. Confidence is something that glows around you when you have it, and something that’s very obvious when you don’t. So if you’re searching for quick ways to build confidence with women, then here are some rock solid tips.

How to Dress To Attract Women

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I believe there’s a rather large misconception about how to dress to attract women. On the one hand, you have a group of people that what you wear really doesn’t matter and it’s not about your appearance. Contrastingly, there’s another crowd that says you need to dress up in a very clean and classy fashion to attract women. So who’s right? Are you supposed to dress up or simply not care?

How To Pick Up A Girl When You’re Waiting in Line In The Store

pickupI’m sure you’ve been there before, you’re waiting in line in a store, waiting to acquire a new item and you catch a glimpse of a gorgeous girl in line. Knowing how to pick up a girl while you’re waiting in a store really isn’t any different from any other type of pickup, and I’ll show you how to do it without even lifting a finger. First, let’s get the conclusion out of the way, the real key to picking up a girl is to figure out what you like in her that’s not related to her physical appearance. Phrased differently because it’s important and I really want to drive the point home: When you approach a girl to pick her up, you need to figure out what you like in her (if anything) other than her good looks. If you adopt that philosophy, you’ll have the right frame of mind and you’re entire interaction will go smoothly.

How To Start A Conversation With a Girl

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I know it can really be a daunting task to start a conversation with a girl, especially when you don’t know her. However, there are some guidelines that if you follow, you’ll know exactly how to start a conversation with a girl even if you’ve never done it before. Once you have the conversation going, you’ll have to keep it up as she’s likely not going to have much to say until she warms up to you. If anything, you should expect to do most of the talking within the first few minutes of the conversation until it progresses to a point where you’re both talking equally.

So let’s start!

Good Openers

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In our fast paced world, having a few good openers is essential if you plan on being successful in seduction. That’s because a lot of the time when you’re going about your day, you’ll see a beautiful woman and your mind will go absolutely blank. Having a few good openers prepared in advance will allow you to go in and open the conversation without even thinking. This is especially important for guys that have approach anxiety because the longer you think about it, the least likely you are to approach a girl.

Learn How To Pick Up Girls

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Assuming you’d like to know how to pick up girls in any situation, the fastest way to learn is to watch other guys do it first. Learning from other men is probably the best way to go about it if you’ve never done it before. The odd thing is that if you ask a guy who’s naturally good at picking up girls to describe what he does, he probably won’t have a clue. That brings me to my biggest tip when picking up women: Don’t think about it and certainly don’t think about the possible outcome.

How to Approach Girls

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The most important lesson you can learn when learning how to approach girls is to realize that one day, you’re going to grow old. While you’re reflecting on your life, you’ll remember all those missed opportunities that you should have taken. Every single time you failed to approach a girl, all those missed approaches will haunt you. So make the most of your time on earth while you’re still young and enjoy it.

Take a moment to think about it. When you’re approaching women, what’s the worst thing that a girl can possibly say to you if you ask her on a date? The worse she can say is “no” right? Well you’re wrong! The worse she can say is that she wouldn’t go out with you if were the last man on Earth, that you’re ugly and disgusting and you should never talk to her again.

How To Make a Girl Smile

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While I was at a party the other day, I stood there drinking my beer and casually observed a really gorgeous woman from a distance.  I wanted to see what guys did to try to pick her up. Like most hot girls at the party, she was surrounded by guys that were all trying to pick her up. Then out of the blue, one guy and said something to her that made her laugh so hard. And he only said one sentence!

What was it? Was it a pickup line?

How To Approach Girls In The Real World

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I love to chat on forums and dating sites because when I’m there I have absolutely no problems approaching girls.  It’s actually really enjoyable for me to see how they react and behave to my different approaches. Online, I don’t have any shyness or fear and these days  Facebook and Myspace actually seem like a game for me. I like to see how long I can keep their attention. I think what helps me the most is the fact that I feel completely anonymous, so when something goes wrong, nobody can do or say anything bad about me. I can simply go on and approach another girl and not feel bad about the last one that didn’t work out.

Absolute Attraction was a success!

Thanks to all those that joined the Absolute Attraction program. It sold out in just a little over a week and the participants are almost at the end of the program.

So far the results are quite pleasing, the members that are actively working are seeing massive improvement! A lot of guys have actually gotten girlfriends during the program and decided to only listen (instead of participating) in the last section of the program.

Nearly everyone in the program has slept with 1-3 new girls this summer (and we even have a member that enjoys emailing me every time he sleep with a new girl… I think he’s up to 7 since the program started). Enough said, it works!

Great job guys! I teach but it’s you guys that actually put the hard work in.