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What Attracts Women

High Social Status

The second most important thing that attracts women to men is social status. Everything that you do, say or omit saying speaks about who you are, where you come from and where you’re going. How valuable you are to your friends, family, work and society in general will determine the level of attraction she feels for you. If you’re important in this world, then she’ll be attracted to you. If you’re insignificant, then … well, you better become significant. This is why the rock star is always so attractive to women, he has hundreds (if not thousands) of girls competing to get him while he’s on stage. Guys want to be him and girls want to be with him. All this social proof makes him very attractive… even if he doesn’t dress nicely and even if he’s a douche.

You don’t have to be a rock star in order to have massive social proof. When you speak to a girl, make sure to mention in a very subtle way that your friends think you’re great, that you’re very valuable at work and that people want to be around you on a consistent basis. It doesn’t have to be much, but if you have one person looking up to you, then that’s enough.

The problem that most people encounter when trying to demonstrate social proof is that they come off as show offs. Don’t try to impress people by telling them your accomplishments or how other people like you. When you try to impress people, you automatically lower your own value. It’s counter-intuitive so I’ll explain with an example. If a guy walks into a bar and says: “Hey, look at my car, I have a brand new BMW parked outside”, people will automatically think he’s compensating for something and he really doesn’t have anything going for him. Contrastingly, if that same guy walks in to a club, and as he’s pulling out his wallet, people notice that he has BMW keys, they’ll automatically assign him much higher value.

In both cases, the social value is the same, it’s just how it’s displayed that is different. If you can let others discover your value, then they will appreciate it a lot more than if you simply go up to them and tell them.

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March 10, 2010
chad p

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