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How To Be More Confident With Women

The Closest Thing to a Quick Fix For Confidence

The next solid piece of advice is to go to the gym. That’s because how you feel physically is linked to how your mind feels about you in general. If you feel good after working out, and you always do, then your mind will feel good about you in general. It’s really not about the muscles or the health, it’s simply about feeling accomplished, energized and vibrant. Working out at the gym does this better than anything else in the world. In addition, the more you go to the gym, the more people will notice your appearance improve and therefore you’ll be getting compliments on more frequently.

Imagine how you would feel if you were on the receiving end of compliments every day?

If girls came up to you and said you looked good… wouldn’t that boost up your confidence pretty quickly? Yeah, I thought so.

#1 Go to the gym if you have a confidence issue.

The next way to be more confident with women is to be completely detached from the outcome. The greatest gift you can give yourself is to simply stop caring about what other people think. I know it can be hard. The trick is to concentrate on meeting people instead of trying to ‘win’ every interaction you have. If you’re just out to meet people instead of pursuing a specific objective, you’ll feel much more comfortable with yourself. You can’t be timid if you aren’t afraid of losing, and you can’t lose if you aren’t actively trying. Now I’m not saying don’t try to pick up women, I’m just saying that you shouldn’t feel as if you lost if an interaction doesn’t go as planned.

If you meet a woman and have a great time, then that’s fantastic. If you meet a girl and things don’t go as smoothly, then that’s fine as well. You shouldn’t worry about what a girl says, or what hundreds of girls say for that matter. That’s because they don’t truly know you, if they did, then they’d understand where you’re coming from.

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6 Responses

March 17, 2009

I know going to the gym really helps but it’s so hard! I really wish there was an easier fix

March 17, 2009

If there’s one area where i lack, this is it.

I know what I’m supposed to do, but when I do it I just hesitate and I know that girls see my lack of confidence. One day I’ll figure it out…

March 17, 2009

Good advice,

Here’s another one:

Hang out with people that are worse looking than you, then you’ll automatically feel good looking!

March 17, 2009

Don’t do that, if you hang out with people that are worse looking than you, it lowers your social value. Hang out with good looking people and then you’ll be used to being surrounded by beautiful people.

March 17, 2009

GUYS, it’s not all about looks.

Confidence is about knowing that you’re good. It’s about accomplishments, go out and do something you’re proud of. Then you’ll feel confident.

March 18, 2010
Alex Berry

Hellomon: you’ll get it figured out “eventually”?

Forget that! If you want to change. Then Change!!
You know all of those people that make fun of you and instantly judge you? They are not your friends, so who cares what they think? (I’ve been there, I was they guy who sat in his desk quietly in school and never made eye-contact with anybody)
Find somebody who likes you for who you are. If YOU don’t like who you are then just do something about it. It’s that simple