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Learn How To Pick Up Girls

The Quickest Way to Pick Up Girls

Once you managed to convince yourself to be detached from the outcome ,the simplest way to learn how to pick up girls is to go out and try different approaches!

It’s only by trying a wide variety of approaches that you’ll:

  • Gain Confidence
  • Discover What Works and what doesn’t with women
  • Gain experience in picking up girls
  • Actually meet girls

I know it might sound ridiculous at first, but the truth is that you really need to start approaching women on a frequent basis in order to successfully learn how to pick up girls.

If you’re committed to success, then here are some different approaches I want you to try:

  1. Start with an opinion opener approach, go up to a girl and ask her for her opinion on something, proceed from there.
  2. Next, go up to a woman and say “Hello, I saw you and I just wanted to say “Hi” “
  3. Go up to a girl and talk to her about a certain situation you’re in, tell her you’re waiting for your friends to come arrive.
  4. Accidentally bump into a girl (gently) as if you were going somewhere else and say hello, act clumsy.
  5. Walk up to a girl and pretend you recognize her from somewhere else, when she objects, continue the conversation.
  6. Find something extremely unique about a girl and then compliment her on it.
  7. Find something funny about a girl and then go tease her about it. This is my favorite one.

Once you’ve tried all these pick up techniques, you’re likely to have a better understanding to how women react to different approaches. It might be a little rough at first, but eventually things will get smoother as you go along.

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Page 2 Fastest Way To Pickup
Page 3 The Mindset
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9 Responses

March 17, 2009

I really liked this advice, be detached from the outcome!
I just have to keep this in mind

March 17, 2009

Good run down of the different openers a guy should do. I think it’s interesting the way you want them to simply go up and open even though they aren’t prepared for it.

It’s kind of like pushing someone in the water when they don’t know how to swim. It works, but it’s scary as hell !

March 17, 2009

Good advice, solid. I’ll be trying those out tonight when I’m picking up (or trying to) at the club!

April 3, 2009

Glad to be able to help !

April 5, 2009

Good article on picking up girls, I just finished reading approach tips and they really compliment each other well.

July 13, 2009
Conrad Dixon

Great little article, love the chart… it’s the pick-up pie.

most important is definitely getting out there and approaching women… like over 90% of guys just don’t do it… no wonder you feel anxious about finding a girlfriend when you don’t approach.



January 17, 2010

Great article man.
i love how you emphasize being outcome independent. I think having a strong inner game and not being too worried about the outcome are huge factors for your success

August 8, 2010

Hey chris, first of all congratulations for this site, it’s great! But I agree with “chicksareforme” in this point:
It’s unimaginabely scary just to walk over to a woman and say “Hello, I saw you and I just wanted to say “Hi” “, when you have never done it yet.
Isn’t that a bit too hard?

September 2, 2010
Matthew Morrow

Great advice man im going to have to try it sometime. I just need to stop being scared