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How To Approach Girls In The Real World

Approaching girls answer:

First, begin by approaching women that don’t impress you. Start by talking to every single girl that doesn’t impress you or intimidate you. It can be ugly chicks, soccer moms, grandmas crossing the street, your sister, cousins, friends from childhood, girls who sell stuff (They are paid to be nice to you). Talk to these kind of girls until you feel like you can approach prettier girls, then prettier, then even prettier girls. There is no miracle trick for approaching beautiful women without fear, you have to work the fear out of your system through practice and hard work.

No tricks, Motivation:

You don’t need tricks.

Instead, you need motivation.

So here’s some: Every time you see an attractive girl in public, think to yourself: “If I don’t approach her, I will never have sleep with her.” Of course, that’s true.

Attractive women don’t tend to approach men, even if they think you’re the best looking guy on the planet (perhaps especially if they think that).  If you’re in a public place and there’s a hot girl there, there are two possibilities: Either she’s not attracted to your looks and therefore you are insignificant to her, or she is attracted to your looks and would be easily open to an approach.  Either way, she will not approach you.  The only way to really find out is to approach her and see what happens.  Once you do, the worst that can happen is a rejection and what does that mean?

Absolutely nothing.

Additional Tip On Approaching Women:

I’m pretty shy and find this hard – though not as hard as I used to.  I think the secret is approaching lots and being prepared to crash and burn.  After a while you’ll begin to realize what works and what doesn’t. Read some articles on openers before you start. Also if you are shy it’s usually best to get straight in and chat so someone (or anyone) rather than linger in a corner waiting for an opportunity.

This article is copyrighted 2005-2009 by the original author Bikepimp, ShivaSpace and Ashenthorn. Since then, it has been re-written and enhanced by howtoseduction.com.

Original article taken from:
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.seduction.fast/browse_frm/thread/ef8b27e18291d85b/d4bf3a0c0cb4116f


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8 Responses

March 15, 2009
Cooler

Good article, I usually talk to my boys before going out… it helps but it’s still nice to talk to all the ladies when you walk into a place. It gets you warmed up


March 15, 2009
Totallylost

I wish life was more like WoW, I have no problems there


March 15, 2009
NoxT

Don’t warm up ! Just go right to the first HB you see


March 15, 2009
BeetP

I can’t wait to try this out tonight, I’m going to talk to 20 girls that I don’t care about


October 28, 2009
allie

okay, i’ve got a question: I’m a girl but I actually have more difficulty then most men I know in talking to other girls!!! I know some of these laws of attraction can work platonically. What should I do? Please help!


November 7, 2009
Muhammad Aslam Khawaja

i really find a beautiful , honest, lovable, understand to family value, share the problem


December 16, 2009
Cypher

How about having it a try on a tips in motivation..
when there are friends around you when you notice a hot girl..try playing some games like trick or treat..when you get the ‘trick’ you will have to admit it..take it as the motivation to approach that girl..


December 5, 2010
Paul luckov

thank you i love this site it helps me alot this is better then those cheesy pick up lines never work and i hate them. thank you this helps alot